We said good-bye to Prince Eric, the Betta fish today. Ailey got him about a year and a half ago and he kept us company from the kitchen counter until yesterday when he went to the bottom of the tank to take a nap and never came up.
It was the girls' first experience with a pet dying, and while it was really hard on them all evening, I think they handled it really well. They would cry that they missed Prince, but follow it up with something they remembered about him. I think it's a testament to the imagination of children that they could come up with so many ways to miss him considering he was a fish in a tank that they barely gave a glance to most of the time. But they did always know he was there and they did like to talk to him and feed him. And while they eventually gave up on asking if they could "hold him", they did like to draw him pictures for his tank walls.
This morning we buried Prince in the backyard because they couldn't handle the idea of "sending him out to sea" -- either via the traditional toilet funeral, or taking him down to the beach to let him go. So now he will forever fertilize be remembered with a visit to a certain spot by the fence.
Ailey and Prince Eric
Since I didn't know how the loss would go over with them I decided to let them guide us on how to handle it. I was surprised, though maybe I shouldn't have been, that all three girls responded almost immediately to the news of Prince Eric's (The Little Mermaid, Ariel's, true love) death by asking if we could get another fish. So, soon after burying him we took a trip to the pet store to pick out a new Betta.
Meet ... Prince Charming. :-)
Suggesting naming our new fish after another Disney prince seemed to help the girls with both moving on from Prince Eric and assuring them that they would not forget him. Prince Charming is now getting cozy in his new home and (hopefully) enjoying the girls' fly-by greetings.
This has sure consumed us for the past 24 hours, but I'm sure life will settle very quickly now. Excuse my long, drawn-out introduction to our new pet, but it was kind of fun to write about. :)